I have a problem...or maybe we have a problem?

ok i've had this problem... i'll tell you how i did.. set yourself a night aside to just the two of you...get some personal lube of your choice and take your time... is a great relaxer... that will help you loosin up a good bit... and just enjoy it dear... it sounds like your stressin about it a little bit too much... yeah its a big deal but its meant to be fun..just remember though.. isn't everything